Hexagram 31 changing to 28: Influence to Great Excess

Where it starts: 31 Influence

Mutual attraction: influence that works because it is felt, not forced, and the courtship that follows. Mountain below, lake above: the still mountain with the lake resting on its summit, the strong below the gentle, the two drawn together. Influence is the hexagram of attraction between people, and its structure is the whole argument: the strong yields its place, the gentle is above, and the two are joined by feeling that neither commands. The tradition's judgement is that success comes with persistence and that to take a wife brings good fortune. The reading says an attraction is real and mutual, and its lines trace the difference between influence that arises in the heart and influence that is merely restless movement in the toes, the calves, the tongue.

Where it goes: 28 Great Excess

A ridgepole bending under too much weight: an extraordinary situation that demands extraordinary, careful action. Wind below, lake above: the lake rising over the trees. Four strong lines in the middle, two weak at the ends: a beam too heavy for its supports. Great Excess describes a critical moment, a load that the structure cannot carry, a situation that has gone past what ordinary measures can handle. The tradition's judgement is not despair: it furthers to have somewhere to go, and success is possible. But the action required is exceptional, and it must be taken with the calm of someone who can stand alone and withdraw from the world without regret. The reading says the pressure is real and the way through is decisive and unconventional.

The lines that move

1. Line 2

   The influence shows itself in the calves. Misfortune. Staying brings good fortune.

   The urge to act before the influence has reached the heart: moving because the legs want to, not because the situation calls for it. The line is plain: wait, and it is fortunate; go, and it is not. You want to move; do not. Wait for the real pull.

What is changing. The situation of Influence is moving toward Great Excess. Be receptive; let influence arise from real feeling rather than from pressure or talk. As the change completes: Recognise the critical moment and act decisively and calmly, even if the action is unusual.

love and relationships

Now: The reading for love itself: genuine mutual attraction. Let it work at its own pace. The lines warn against pushing with the body before the heart has spoken, and against influencing by talk. Receptivity is what draws the other person. Then: The relationship is under more weight than it was built for. Ordinary adjustments will not do. Either a decisive change, made carefully, or a decisive acceptance of what cannot be held. Do not pretend the beam is not bending.

career

Now: Influence that comes from openness rather than pressure. People approach a person who is receptive. Persuade by listening. The reading favours partnerships and alliances that form naturally. Then: A crisis, an overload, a structure at breaking point. The reading supports extraordinary action: the unusual solution, the difficult conversation, the change of direction. Act before the ridgepole snaps, and act calmly.

money

Now: Attraction of the right people and opportunities through openness and good faith. Not the time to push a deal; the time to be approachable and let it come. Beware of influence exercised through mere talk. Then: Overextension. The commitments exceed the support. Reduce the load or reinforce the structure now; waiting is the one thing the reading forbids. Exceptional measures are appropriate.

decisions

Now: Decide by what you feel drawn to, once you have distinguished the deep pull from the restless one. The reading supports commitment where the attraction is mutual and calm. Then: This is a decision that cannot be avoided or postponed. Choose the extraordinary option that addresses the actual load, and choose it with composure rather than panic.