I Ching · Hexagram 44 Coming to Meet
Hexagram 44 line 6: Coming to Meet, yang in the sixth place

I Ching 44.6
He comes to meet with his horns. Humiliation. No blame.
Withdrawing from the world and meeting everything with prickly reserve. Others find it off-putting and the person does not mind. The line calls it humiliation and clears it of blame: aloofness is a fault only in manners.
Advice. If you meet the world with horns, expect to be found difficult; it is not wrong, only lonely.
What changes when line 6 moves
Line 6 of Hexagram 44 is yang, a solid line. When it is cast as old yang (a 9) it flips, and the hexagram becomes Hexagram 28, Great Excess: A ridgepole bending under too much weight: an extraordinary situation that demands extraordinary, careful action.
Read together, the reading moves from Coming to Meet toward Great Excess. One yin line entering beneath five yang: an encounter that looks small and must be met with clear judgement. Wind below, lake above: the lake rising over the trees. Four strong lines in the middle, two weak at the ends: a beam too heavy for its supports. The primary hexagram describes the situation; the changing line is the point of movement in it; the resulting hexagram is where that movement leads. Both hexagrams belong to the reading, and the changing line is the hinge between them.
Line 6 in context
- Love & relationships
- If you meet the world with horns, expect to be found difficult; it is not wrong, only lonely. In love and relationships, Hexagram 44 reads: An encounter, attractive and possibly unwise. The reading does not say refuse it; it says see it for what it is and do not bind yourself to something that will grow beyond your control. Set the terms at the start.
- Career
- If you meet the world with horns, expect to be found difficult; it is not wrong, only lonely. In career, Hexagram 44 reads: A new influence, person or proposal entering, apparently minor. Treat it with full attention; the hexagram's lesson is that what enters small becomes decisive. Judge it now, clearly, and declare where you stand.
- Money
- If you meet the world with horns, expect to be found difficult; it is not wrong, only lonely. In money, Hexagram 44 reads: A tempting opportunity that arrives unexpectedly. Do not commit on the strength of its appeal. The reading warns against being drawn into a coupling whose consequences you cannot yet see.
- A decision
- If you meet the world with horns, expect to be found difficult; it is not wrong, only lonely. In decisions, Hexagram 44 reads: Recognise the meeting for what it is before you decide. The reading is against binding commitments to an influence that has just appeared and looks small. Set conditions; do not marry the maiden.
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