Hexagram 62 for love and relationships: Small Excess

小過 Xiǎo Guò · Love & relationships

Small things, done with extra care: the gesture, the apology, the attention to detail. Not the grand declaration. The reading favours modesty and warns against flying high; the bird that climbs now is caught in the net.

Mountain below, thunder above: thunder on the mountain, louder than in the sky and smaller in reach. Four yielding lines outweigh two strong ones. Small Excess describes a time when the small predominates and the correct response is to attend to small things with slightly more care than usual: more reverence in conduct, more grief in mourning, more thrift in spending. The tradition's judgement is that small things may be done and great things may not, and its image is the flying bird whose call should go downward, not up. The reading says this is not a time to attempt anything large or to fly high, and that success lies in modesty carried a little past the ordinary.

Advice: Do small things with extra care and stay low; this is not a time to fly high.
Warning: The bird that ignores the warning and flies too high in a time of the small is caught in the net.

The changing lines, read for love and relationships

If your cast of Hexagram 62 had changing lines, these are what each one adds to a love question, and where each leads.

Line 1 · changes into 55 Abundance
The bird meets with misfortune through flying. Do not fly yet; the attempt itself is the misfortune.
Line 2 · changes into 32 Duration
She passes by her ancestor and meets her ancestress. He does not reach his prince and meets the official. No blame. Deal with whoever is available; do not insist on the top.
Line 3 · changes into 16 Enthusiasm
If one is not extremely careful, somebody may come up from behind and strike him. Misfortune. Take the precaution you would normally skip; this is not a normal time.
Line 4 · changes into 15 Modesty
No blame. He meets him without passing by. Going brings danger. One must be on guard. Do not act. Be constantly persistent. Meet the situation without forcing it; stay on guard, do not act.
Line 5 · changes into 31 Influence
Dense clouds, no rain from our western territory. The prince shoots and hits him who is in the cave. The help you need has withdrawn; seek it out where it is hiding.
Line 6 · changes into 56 The Wanderer
He passes him by, not meeting him. The flying bird leaves him. Misfortune. This means bad luck and injury. You have overshot; the bird is gone. Come down at once.

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