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I Ching · Hexagram 44 Coming to Meet

Hexagram 44 line 3: Coming to Meet, yang in the third place

Line 3 of a hexagram

I Ching 44.3

No skin on the thighs, walking is hard. If one is mindful of the danger, no great mistake is made.

Tempted, and unable to act on it; uncomfortable, restless, stuck. The line's saving grace is awareness: knowing the danger keeps the person from a serious error, even while they suffer the discomfort.

Advice. You are tempted and stuck; stay aware of the danger and you make no great mistake.

What changes when line 3 moves

Line 3 of Hexagram 44 is yang, a solid line. When it is cast as old yang (a 9) it flips, and the hexagram becomes Hexagram 6, Conflict: A dispute you are sincere in but cannot win outright: meet halfway, and take advice before going further.

Read together, the reading moves from Coming to Meet toward Conflict. One yin line entering beneath five yang: an encounter that looks small and must be met with clear judgement. Water below, heaven above: the two move in opposite directions and cannot meet. Conflict describes a disagreement that has hardened, where you may be in the right and still cannot carry it through by force. The primary hexagram describes the situation; the changing line is the point of movement in it; the resulting hexagram is where that movement leads. Both hexagrams belong to the reading, and the changing line is the hinge between them.

Hexagram 44 changing to 6 →

Line 3 in context

Love & relationships
You are tempted and stuck; stay aware of the danger and you make no great mistake. In love and relationships, Hexagram 44 reads: An encounter, attractive and possibly unwise. The reading does not say refuse it; it says see it for what it is and do not bind yourself to something that will grow beyond your control. Set the terms at the start.
Career
You are tempted and stuck; stay aware of the danger and you make no great mistake. In career, Hexagram 44 reads: A new influence, person or proposal entering, apparently minor. Treat it with full attention; the hexagram's lesson is that what enters small becomes decisive. Judge it now, clearly, and declare where you stand.
Money
You are tempted and stuck; stay aware of the danger and you make no great mistake. In money, Hexagram 44 reads: A tempting opportunity that arrives unexpectedly. Do not commit on the strength of its appeal. The reading warns against being drawn into a coupling whose consequences you cannot yet see.
A decision
You are tempted and stuck; stay aware of the danger and you make no great mistake. In decisions, Hexagram 44 reads: Recognise the meeting for what it is before you decide. The reading is against binding commitments to an influence that has just appeared and looks small. Set conditions; do not marry the maiden.

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