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I Ching · Hexagram 44 Coming to Meet

Hexagram 44 line 4: Coming to Meet, yang in the fourth place

Line 4 of a hexagram

I Ching 44.4

No fish in the tank. This leads to misfortune.

The one who should have contained the influence has let it go, out of contempt or neglect, and lost the connection to those below. Misfortune comes from having failed to meet what should have been met.

Advice. You have neglected what you should have handled; the loss follows.

What changes when line 4 moves

Line 4 of Hexagram 44 is yang, a solid line. When it is cast as old yang (a 9) it flips, and the hexagram becomes Hexagram 57, The Gentle: Wind repeated: gentle, persistent penetration, which reaches where force cannot, provided it has a direction.

Read together, the reading moves from Coming to Meet toward The Gentle. One yin line entering beneath five yang: an encounter that looks small and must be met with clear judgement. Wind below, wind above: the gentle doubled, wind following wind. The Gentle describes influence that works by persistence rather than by force: the wind that shapes the rock over years, the idea that spreads by being repeated calmly. The primary hexagram describes the situation; the changing line is the point of movement in it; the resulting hexagram is where that movement leads. Both hexagrams belong to the reading, and the changing line is the hinge between them.

Hexagram 44 changing to 57 →

Line 4 in context

Love & relationships
You have neglected what you should have handled; the loss follows. In love and relationships, Hexagram 44 reads: An encounter, attractive and possibly unwise. The reading does not say refuse it; it says see it for what it is and do not bind yourself to something that will grow beyond your control. Set the terms at the start.
Career
You have neglected what you should have handled; the loss follows. In career, Hexagram 44 reads: A new influence, person or proposal entering, apparently minor. Treat it with full attention; the hexagram's lesson is that what enters small becomes decisive. Judge it now, clearly, and declare where you stand.
Money
You have neglected what you should have handled; the loss follows. In money, Hexagram 44 reads: A tempting opportunity that arrives unexpectedly. Do not commit on the strength of its appeal. The reading warns against being drawn into a coupling whose consequences you cannot yet see.
A decision
You have neglected what you should have handled; the loss follows. In decisions, Hexagram 44 reads: Recognise the meeting for what it is before you decide. The reading is against binding commitments to an influence that has just appeared and looks small. Set conditions; do not marry the maiden.

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